Signs of A Cheating Spouse and the Excuses and Lies Behind Them

In marriages, a spouse may hear a lot of excuses from their other partner. It wouldn’t be a surprise if those excuses were related to the signs of cheating. As you know, in most cases when a spouse is cheating, they don’t want to make this fact known and keep it hidden.

How do they hide their actions?

They tell lies and excuses to cover up what they are really doing on the sideline. Here are a few examples of the lies and excuses you may be getting fed when the signs of cheating becomes obvious.

Spends Less Time With You:

“I just need to be away for a while”

“I have plans today and will be home a little later than expected”

“I’m going to spend some time with some relatives”

Comes Homes Late at Night:

“I had to work late again”

“I had car troubles”

“Me and my buddies got together”

Less Intimate, Lack of Affection:

“Now isn’t the time”

“I’m tired” or “I just don’t feel like it”

Mysterious Phone Calls:

“I don’t know who that is”

“Its just a friend of mines, nothing is going on”

“It’s business”

Sneaks Out of the House:

“I didn’t want to wake/bother you”

“I had an errand to run”

“I wanted to take a walk/ride”

These are just a few of the excuses cheating spouses make to avoid getting caught or to throw there significant other off. Cheaters will do and say anything to hide the fact that they are cheating.

If you notice some of these signs, see what kind of things your partner says to prove his actions or innocence. Does these things they are saying add up? If they are working late, can they verify this. If they had an errand to run, what was it.

You can get deep down into these excuses or strange behavior by actually getting your partner to prove what they are telling you. You don’t even have to let him know you are suspicious. You can even take matters into your own hand once you can verify that these excuses and lies aren’t adding up.

If you feel like your spouse is hiding something or telling you a bunch of excuses and lies about their strange behavior, uncover the truth and learn how to catch a cheating spouse.

With some help and great guide, you can find out if your spouse is cheating and how to catch him.

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I think Jason Cole, Yahoo Sports, summed up our feelings about the tragic death of Steve McNair in his article: Fans can’t avoid “the elephant in the room” at McNair’s memorial “There are a year’s worth of sermons and lessons that people could take from the death of Steve McNair at the hands of his unstable mistress.”

Here’s a man who seemingly had everything – beautiful wife and children, fame, money and the respect of his peers and community, yet something was obviously terribly wrong.

Steve McNair paid the ultimate price for cheating on his wife – death.

Somehow the public’s fascination with the rich and famous desensitizes them to the fact that a wife is now a widow, children are now fatherless and friends and family are left “struggling with questions.”
This incident should remind us that infidelity has consequences. It causes pain to everyone involved directly and indirectly.

Regardless of your position in life whether private or public the betrayal of marital infidelity destroys lives. Even if you’re not married; but in a committed relationship, the betrayal of trust hurts. It erodes the injured parties’ ability to trust in the future for fear of being hurt again.

We are not privy to the intimate details of the McNair’s marriage.  It remains a mystery. What is apparent is that his affair was very public by all indications, most notably the now infamous TMZ photo.

The unfortunate truth however is that most men and women involved in with a cheater will never take action. Whether out of fear of finding out the truth (denial), fear of financial loss, or fear of physical harm they simply acquiesce to the reality that their husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on them.

The real question will you take action if you suspect that your spouse or partner is cheating on you?
For most of us, if infidelity should strike our relationships, it will be far from the scrutiny of the media. It will be personal, but no less painful.

Breaking news of cheating spouses in recent weeks lets us know that the incidents of cheating are on the rise, not the decline.

Cheating on your spouse is fast becoming the norm, not the exception as evidenced by Governor Mark Sanford, South Carolina and Jon Goesslin star of the reality T.V. show Jon & Kate Plus 8.

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