10 Signs of an Unfaithful “Cheating” Wife

Consider the Following Signs of A Cheating Wife…

You have been dating the same woman for over a year and you are considering buying her a diamond ring and proposing marriage. You start to look at rings and you actually put a payment down on one. Then, a week later you plan to surprise your girlfriend and take her out for her favorite meal at your favorite restaurant. When you arrive to pick her up, you find her with another man, in bed. Later, you find out it has been going on for months.

Possible Signs of a Cheating Wife

1. Highly suspicious – Believe it or not, the guilt that having an affair brings can make a cheating wife obsessive and controlling. She may even accuse you of having an affair in the hopes that her guilt will be met by yours. If she suddenly starts asking a lot of questions about where you’ve been and if there are any other women, look out.
2. Watch out if she seems to be unusually happy. Lately she has been very excited and happy except when you are around. Say, for example, you are meeting her and some friends at a club. As you are walking in, you see her sitting and laughing with her friends. As soon as she spots you, her mood may quickly change. She may become indifferent to being there and having fun, as if she wishes she were anywhere else but with you. She may also begin to be grumpy or even try to pick a fight. All these emotions could be signs that she is hiding a dark secret from you, and she’s trying to compensate for an extramarital affair the best way she can.
3. Your wife calls out another man’s name in bed. Whether it is when she is making love to you or just talking in her sleep. If she’s thinking about another man enough to say his name in the marital bed, this is a sure sign your spouse is cheating.
4. One of the really subtle signs your wife is cheating that you may not even notice is the passenger seat in her car. Many women pick up their lovers and drive them to some remote location for their interlude. If your kids are typically the ones sitting in that passenger seat and every once in a while the seat is pulled farther back, you should be ask yourself, why that is.
5. Changes in sexual behavior can also be signs of a cheating wife. Decreased desire for sex could be due to any number of factors, including stress or fatigue, but if your wife suddenly starts avoiding having sex, it is a cause for concern. Some women who are cheating will actually seek out sex with their spouses more often. This might be out of guilt or as a deliberate ploy to keep the husband from suspecting her extracurricular activities. Increased sex drive can also result from other things like hormonal changes, so it is best not to take that in itself as a sign of infidelity.
6. A drastic change of activities in the day is also another sign of a cheating wife. If she goes out to “shop” more often, or has “lunch” with her girlfriends much more frequently, this could be reason to examine your situation more closely. Also if she seems reluctant to divulge the details of the venue (the exact restaurant or the names of the friends who are joining her for lunch), there is a chance that she is having an affair.
7. The mileage on the car racks up, and suddenly her vacation days at work seem to have dwindled. She might be getting dressed for work and leaving the house, only to drive to the next town over to visit with her lover. She has been taking days off work to be with him! Check into her sick days and vacation time, and if you see there is time off unaccounted for; make a note of it.
8. With communication so easy with cellular phones, texting, phone media and so on people can connect with each other whenever they feel like it. The capricious highs of infidelity tend to lead to secretive communications becoming more frequent. If you find your wife often talking on the phone out of earshot or if you answer the phone only to have the caller hang up on you, there may be reason for concern. Also if you find she suddenly clears all her messages, text & voice, when she used to leave them there before, ask yourself why the sudden attentiveness to her cell phone mailbox. Just make sure she’s not planning a surprise birthday party!
9. Watch out for expensive gifts. Most of the women like shopping but they are generally reluctant to purchase exorbitant items for themselves, especially if they know their husbands are money conscious. If there is a new man in her life, she could be buying him gifts.
10. People often think that if someone is having an affair, then they will neglect their partner. This is often the case, but surprisingly the reverse is sometimes true. This is because of guilt. Women suffer more from guilt than men. So a cheating wife might appear extra nice when she’s with you, buying you gifts, cooking special meals and so on. The real giveaway in my experience is that despite this attention, your wife or girlfriend will probably find reasons for your sex life to become far less satisfactory.

These are all signs of a cheating wife. It does not mean that your wife is cheating but if you recognize significant changes in her behavior, such as those mentioned above, you will want to find out what is going on.

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