Steve McNair: The Ultimate Price For Cheating On Your Spouse…
July 16, 2009 by abuhakim
Filed under Cheating Spouse, Featured
Steve McNair & Sahel Kazemi
I think Jason Cole, Yahoo Sports, summed up our feelings about the tragic death of Steve McNair in his article: Fans can’t avoid “the elephant in the room” at McNair’s memorial “There are a year’s worth of sermons and lessons that people could take from the death of Steve McNair at the hands of his unstable mistress.”
Here’s a man who seemingly had everything – beautiful wife and children, fame, money and the respect of his peers and community, yet something was obviously terribly wrong.
Steve McNair paid the ultimate price for cheating on his wife – death.
Somehow the public’s fascination with the rich and famous desensitizes them to the fact that a wife is now a widow, children are now fatherless and friends and family are left “struggling with questions.”
This incident should remind us that infidelity has consequences. It causes pain to everyone involved directly and indirectly.
Regardless of your position in life whether private or public the betrayal of marital infidelity destroys lives. Even if you’re not married; but in a committed relationship, the betrayal of trust hurts. It erodes the injured parties’ ability to trust in the future for fear of being hurt again.
We are not privy to the intimate details of the McNair’s marriage. It remains a mystery. What is apparent is that his affair was very public by all indications, most notably the now infamous TMZ photo.
The unfortunate truth however is that most men and women involved in with a cheater will never take action. Whether out of fear of finding out the truth (denial), fear of financial loss, or fear of physical harm they simply acquiesce to the reality that their husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on them.
The real question will you take action if you suspect that your spouse or partner is cheating on you?
For most of us, if infidelity should strike our relationships, it will be far from the scrutiny of the media. It will be personal, but no less painful.
Breaking news of cheating spouses in recent weeks lets us know that the incidents of cheating are on the rise, not the decline.
Cheating on your spouse is fast becoming the norm, not the exception as evidenced by Governor Mark Sanford, South Carolina and Jon Goesslin star of the reality T.V. show Jon & Kate Plus 8.
What Can You Do If You Suspect A Cheating Spouse?
If you suspect your spouse or significant other is cheating, you have two options…
- Do Nothing…
- Get The Truth
Go here for my report, How To Get The Truth Out Of Anyone
Catch A Cheating Spouse…
January 14, 2009 by abuhakim
Filed under Catching The Cheater
There are many ways to catch a cheating spouse. I will outline a handful here:
Confronting the spouse: Occasionally this works, but most often you are met with a wall of denial. It’s only wise to confront your spouse about cheating if you have hard proof, such as photos, voicemails, and emails the clearly demonstrate infidelity.
Private Detective: This will usually do the trick, but to secure the services of a private detective be prepared to pay several thousands dollars. Maybe it’s worth it, maybe it’s not. If you have extra money and can afford it, go for it. And while they are often successful, sometimes they are not.
Be Your Own Detective: This is the option most people take. There are several methods. You can tail your spouse when they go out, although this can be stressful and even dangerous. If you see something (your spouse with lover) you might be provoked to confront your spouse and their lover and these situations can quickly escalate into violence. I don’t recommend it.
If you see your spouse make a phone-call hit redial on the phone after he or she is finished. This will often put you in contact with spouse’s girlfriend or boyfriend.
Monitor credit cards. See a charge for a hotel room that shouldn’t be there? That’s how most cheaters get caught.
Here is the very best way to be your own detective. Find computer evidence. 99% of cheating has an online/computer component. They often use email to schedule affairs and believe it or not a lot cheaters find people to cheat with online on ‘hook-up’ sites. The one problem is that a cheating spouse often knows it’s wise to hide email or website evidence. So this is where keylogger software is helpful. Keylogger software is simple to install and will track on their online activity and send a daily report to your email address. You install the software, set it to stealth mode (it becomes hidden) and your spouse will have no idea they’re computer activity is being monitored. It’s the easy way to catch a cheater. And it’s dirt cheap.
Once you have incriminating email, sites they visit, you can print off the evidence and confront your spouse with it.
Here is an excellent tool which will track the footprints and provide you with the document evidence you need to catch your cheating spouse, lover or partner.
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Celeste, S. (2008, October 16). Catch A Cheating Spouse. Retrieved January 13, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?Catch-A-Cheating-Spouse&id=1590813
How To Catch A Cheater & Get Hard Evidence…You Are Busted!
January 14, 2009 by yommys01
Filed under Catching The Cheater
1. Cell phone.
Is he or she suddenly getting calls more often than usual? Calls that they immediately dismiss when in the company of you? What about text messages. Are text messages coming in more often? Is he or she being a little more discreet than usual with his texting?
Or how about this:
Are they suddenly turning off their cell phones in the presence of you? Odd, isn’t it. Usually their phones will be on, but now they decide to turn them off, perhaps in fear of receiving calls from “someone else”.
2. Computer (This is the big one!)
Today’s type of cheating almost always goes down on the computer. Chat rooms, messaging, emails, myspace cheating, there are so many options for cheating to take place. Usually their cheating behavior starts on the internet and continues, or else at some point communication will involve the computer and internet. It’s just too easy to get away with. Or so they think.
Take special note of computer activity the same way you would of cell phone activity. The computer is where you are going to nail them with the hard evidence you need to prove their infidelity.
3. Keylogger Software (Here’s your evidence!)
What if you could actually see where they are roaming around online? Cheaters are such risk takers nowadays that they often will have no problem actually using YOUR computer to visit a chat room, drop an email, or do a myspace message. Leave them alone in a room with your computer and they can’t resist.
If you get keylogger software, which you can download right online and it easily installs on whichever computer you are using, then you can track cheaters internet activity and they will never know about it. Matter of fact, even if they try to delete their internet history, you can still see everywhere they’ve visited and the exact messages they’ve exchanged! You can print all this out, and present it to the cheaters face, and say…”BUSTED”! Downloading keylogger software on your computer or the cheaters computer could finally bring you the answers you deserve and need to know.
=>Best Keylogger Software For Catching A Cheating Spouse, Lover or Partner
McDoogle, C. (2008, November 5). How to Catch a Cheater and Get Hard Evidence – “You Are Busted!”. Retrieved January 13, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Catch-a-Cheater-and-Get-Hard-Evidence—andquot;You-Are-Busted!andquot;&id=1652336
How to Survive a Cheating Spouse – What to Do Before Making Emotional Decisions
December 24, 2008 by yommys01
Filed under Cheating Spouse
How To Survive After Being Cheated On
Can your relationship survive after infidelity? It all depends on how long you have been in the relationship. You will want to think long and hard as to whether you want to renain in the relationship. Is it worth fighting for?
Cheating ruins relationships. In fact, it is one of the major causes of separations and divorces. You can work through the restoration and reconciliation process of your relationship after an affair and I will give you three easy steps on how to survive a cheating spouse and get your relationship back on track.
Plan Before Confronting the Cheating Partner
Before confronting the cheating partner with your evidence and signs of infidelity, have a plan as to what you are going to say. It would also be to your benefit to choose a location ahead of time. You want to be prepared, and to stay calm. Do not put yourself in a situation where anger or rage could lead to a physical altercation.
Don’t Rely On Your Emotions, They Will Fail You…
If your partner has an affair it can leave you feeling degraded. This is emotionally devasting. However you need to keep your cool. As counter-intuitive as it sounds, this is not the time for an emotional outburst. Losing control of your emotions gives your partner ammunition to manipulate the situation.
Don’t Become A Cheater Because They Did
Unfortunately some people think that in order to survive an affair they have to retaliate against the cheating spouse or cheating partner by having their own affair. This never works in anyone’s favor. It is no good fighting fire with fire and will only lead to an eruption of emotions for everyone involved.
Affairs are painful. Following the affair, everything is awkward, painful, and difficult. It’s completely normal to want to skip several painful steps and just move on. Many take the tactic of “if I don’t think or talk about it, it doesn’t exist.” This sounds good in theory, but it often comes back to haunt you. If you don’t take the time to deal with, fix and work through the multiple issues that go hand in hand with an affair, these things will come out in their own way – often in ways that aren’t pretty or healthy. You may become angry or bitter for no apparent reason quite suddenly. You may find yourself muttering insults and sarcastic accusations under your breath. You may feel resentment that doesn’t go away.
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