10 Signs She’s Not Interested In You

There are virtually millions of beautiful single women out there waiting for the right man to come along.  Now do the math, add them up, millions.

Have you ever wasted your time, money and energy on a woman that you never ever had a chance with? Of course you have.  You may not have known it at that time, but you were just too determined to get her.

Maybe it was because she was beautiful or because you saw her as the ideal person for you. And the really annoying thing is that, all the clues that she wasn’t really interested in you and your game were right there in front of you, but you just wouldn’t see it because you were focused on the prize.

Don’t be too hard on yourself.  Millions of men make the same mistake, most  without even knowing it , but the good news is that after reading this article, you will never make that same mistake again.

This article will outline the Top 10 signs she is not interested in you!

I have been there before and I know how hard it is to accept the fact that a girl is not interested in you, but the truth is that you will be better off if you can spot the signs ahead of time.

It is important to note that some of these signs may appear at any stage during your relationship.  They might emerge on the first date or perhaps even after a few dates.  

The point is that whenever any of one of these 10 signs surfaces, heed the warning and take the opportunity to move along and shift your focus on one of the many single girls out there who you are sure to have a better chance with instead of wasting your time one someone who is not interested.

Here they are, the top 10 signs she’s not interested in you:

 10. She turns down your invitation.

It is ok if she does it once. She may have a very legitimate reason(s). I am not trying to say you should give up on her if she turns you down once but it is a good sign that she is not interested in you if she repeatedly makes excuses as to why she can’t see you.

9. She hasn’t introduced you to her friends.

She will definitely want to introduce you to her friends if she is really interested in you. Girls like show off guys they’re interested in, and if she is interested in you then she will introduce you to her friends. If after several dates, she does not introduce you to one of her friends; it simply means she does not expect the relationship to last. She might just be spending time with you because you’re convenient. After all, who wouldn’t pass up a good meal and a night out?

8. She always brings her friends.

Ok, she’s accepted your invitation, you’ve been on a few dates and she may have even introduced you to her friends but now, they’re permanent chaperones. There is usually little or no chance for romance if she is always bringing her friends on her dates with you or if they always conveniently show up wherever you to are.  This is a sign that she is not interested in intimacy.

7. She Enjoys Talking About Other Men Than You.

Unless it’s someone very popular like P-Diddy, or someone equally famous and unattainable, her conversation about other men is probably a bad sign. If the guy in question is not her brother or some other close relative, then she is clearly not interested in you and she is only stylishly letting you know that before it is too late. More importantly, if she has the guts to ask you for a relationship advice then you should know that you are seen as a mere friend and not a romantic partner.

6. She pays more attention to other men (in a group setting)

In this scenario, you begin the night as a couple and end up with a group — at a club or something — and she spends more time talking to another guy. Except if the guy in question is a long time friend, business partner or a relative, this is definitely reason for concern.

Not only is she willing to risk losing you to other women, but her actions indicate she doesn’t really care about your feelings. Sure, she may run back to you when it’s time to collect the coats and arrange the cabs home, but it’s clear that her attention was elsewhere.

5. She keeps asking about your friend.

If you are talking to the object of your affection and she is constantly interrupting you to ask about your friend ‘Will,’ that’s a bad sign. You should probably pass her number on to him — with her permission, of course — and hook your boy up.

 4. She stays away from you in public.

Does she avoid being seen “coupled up” with you in public. If she rejects all your public displays of affection like hugging, pecking, holding hands, etc.,  there’s a definite issue.

3. She Keeps Referring To You As Her “Buddy” or “ Special Friend”

If after several dates when introducing you to her friends or relatives, your date keeps referring to you as her “buddy” or “friend” You are officially in her Friend Zone. Take her up on her offer to hook you up with her friend and cut your losses.

2. No Physical Intimacy

When you try to look deep in her eyes she shuts them and turns away it’s a sign of intimacy issues. Physical intimacy (not just sex), but contact, proximity is a natural part of any romantic relationship. People who are attracted to each other enjoy touching, caressing, kissing, holding each other, conversation etc. If she recoils every time you make an advance in that direction, it’s a sign. Run!

 1. She doesn’t return your calls

You’re always the one initiating contact. You’re the one calling her and she never reciprocates. Unless, she one of those chicks whose into being pursued, it’s a definite sign that she’s just not into you. Regardless of how busy or involved a person is, they make time for the things they want to do and for the people who are important to them.

Of course if she’s out of town in Hong Kong and you’re calling her at 3:00 a.m. don’t expect her to call you right back. Barring that, take it as a sign of disinterest.

Here’s a rule of thumb: If she doesn’t return your first call, call a second time, as she may be playing hard to get. If she doesn’t return your second call, you can rightly conclude that she’s not into you. (Do allow a certain amount of leeway on this point; women have been told by umpteen dating books to let the man do the pursuing. She should be calling you at least once for every three times you call her.)

These are the Top 10 Signs That She’s Not Interested in You.  Therefore if you are in a relationship where the girl exhibits these tell-tale signs, maybe it is time you forget her and move on.

Just remember there are many girls out there who may be worth your time.